Love is such a strong word but often abused.  They say men use this word to get laid and ladies give sex to gain love.  Painful irony but that's how things go.  Sometimes its better to set love aside and just feel the moment.  No I love you's would mean no hurtful goodbyes.  A relationship not bounded by love is risky but seamlessly fair. No pressure and its always easy to get out anytime. 

So, how did everyone celebrated valentine's day?

 Got this from Cutepsycho's page, maybe its one reason why its better not settle for a love relationship because men cheats almost instantly ... read on

Why do Men Cheat?

1. Sex - Yes, pure and simple. A man may cheat on you simply for sex. A man is able to have sex with another woman without having feelings for her. He can also have sex with another woman without affecting his emotions for his partner. So we guess the good news is that if your man has had sex with another woman, he may still be in love with you !

2. Ego - We all know how the male likes to have his ego boosted every now and then. Well having sex with a woman is a boost to his ego. The more women he has, the bigger the boost. If you don't believe us, just listen to guys talking about sex, they are more likely to talk about quantity rather than quality.

3. Excitement - Men, like us all, need excitement in their lives. Sometimes a relationship can squash that excitement, no matter how good the relationship. Having an affair brings some excitement back for them. We guess it's like having a new toy.

4. Because they can - How often have we heard this excuse? Yet it is true, men can cheat by having affairs and perhaps do it without too much conscience pricking.

5. Trophy hunting - This seems to go back to the very basics of male instincts. Young guys before they settle down are keen on trophy hunting - be it notches on the bed post, marks in a diary, empty wine bottles, photos etc. They are more interested in the number of girls they lay as a means of proving themselves to other guys and to themselves. It seems that some guys just cannot let go of this phase and may cheat in order to continue hunting trophies.

6. Fear of getting old - It seems that to some men, cheating is a way of proving to themselves and their mates that they are still young and able to 'pull'